There's this thing guys do in the throes of hot sex , and you might not even notice. We pause, and we look. Because when you're totally in the moment, you put on one hell of a sexy show, and we love to watch. The thing is, visual cues are a major part of the sexual response for men. Your body has a hypnotic power over us—during sex or otherwise. Curious about what's really running through our minds? Here are nine things every man thinks when he sees you naked:.
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No wonder women are so confused. Turning a man on has a lot to do with your attitude. If you are confident and comfortable, do what feels right not what you think you should do… this will turn him on whether he is wearing clothes or not. On the flip side, if you are unable to be comfortable and are anxious and in-your-head, this will be a turn off.
Okay, right up front - I love my wife of 48 years as much as I did on the day we were married. I plan to go on loving her until we're both buried side by side. But our bodies have betrayed both of us. I know that I'm a shadow of what I used to be, and depressed to boot, so I'm no longer a real prize. And she is no longer the slim little nymph who caught my eye all those years ago. The physical attraction is really gone - I no longer feel like reaching out for her in the middle of the night and getting something started.
D, author of Having Sex, Wanting Intimacy. But while the butt-naked you may not be hitting the same arousal buttons as her bared bod does in your eyes, you can be sure that she is checking you out nonetheless. All of you.