I felt so bad for the women in the previous article , having anal sex when it obviously wasn't something they liked. We're in charge of our sexuality, and we ought to own it. I love anal and hate receiving oral , so I'm really weird, but so what? I have someone who appreciates me for me. I first tried it 15 years ago, with my husband. I'd had fantasies about it before and was more into doing it — I expected to like it as much as I ultimately do. We had tried buttplay before, using fingers, and I always loved it. I don't talk about it with my friends much, because there's a stigma against women who enjoy it. Either they're sluts or they're lying for male validation. Neither one is true for me.

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Time to get acquainted with this erogenous zone. Orgasms come in all different varieties. There's the clitoral orgasm, the G-spot orgasm, the cervical orgasm, even something called the core orgasm, or "core-gasm," which some women can experience by using their core muscles during a workout. But the one type of climax most women don't know about is the anal orgasm. Yep, this actually exists.
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Full disclosure: I have had anal sex before, and I hated it. Clearly, I wasn't doing it right. You shouldn't just be a receptacle for someone else's good time. You deserve to come, too, and don't you forget it. It turns out you can — big time. No ifs, ands, or butts about it. Contrary to popular belief, orgasms from anal sex are totally possible even though there's not always any clitoral or vaginal stimulation involved. The cool thing about anal sex, though, is that there can be!
There's no denying that butts are all the rage: From toning your glutes to admiring Kim Kardashian's booty , butt stuff is a hot topic. And the final frontier of this booty-mania? There's no doubt that anal sex still comes with a bit of albeit sexy taboo. Perhaps that's because stepping into the anal arena for the first time can be intimidating, to say the least. What the heck are you supposed to do down there?