For those who engage in oral sex with people who have penises, the decision between spitting or swallowing probably comes up a lot. Semen — also known as cum — is the viscous liquid that is often ejaculated during orgasm. Others may have tried, but been thwarted by a strong physical reaction to its taste or texture. Being on the same page and communicating with your partner is key in and out of the bedroom, but especially when it comes to experimenting with new sexual activities. Sex therapist Dr. Janet Brito tells O. Particularly if your partner experiences gender dysphoria , anxiety, or a medical condition that affects ejaculation , a thorough boundary-setting conversation with enthusiastic consent is a must.
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I used to be a spitter, that was until I realized it was just easier for me to swallow. I think I always was a swallower until I had one overly salty experience with a guy that totally had me put off from cum. I get it, ladies, some guys have very strong tasting cum which is something that once enters your mouth, scars you forever. Personally, I find swallowing an easier and sexier way of dealing with cum. I mean, is that even environmentally friendly? All those wasted tissues. You can also spit or have him ejaculate on your stomach, ass, or tits.
If you have never tried it before, then you may be a little nervous at the idea of swallowing your man's cum. Don't worry! Before getting to the "How to" part, it's crucial that you read this section. The most important thing in any relationship is to have great communication with your man.